Anonymous asked:

im an interest but i think my school chapter already selected a line for next fall what should i do?

Divine Love Answer:

Continue expressing interest, ask members what they suggest you do, and prepare for your next opportunity. 

QuietStorm

Anonymous ask

Anonymous asked:

This sorority I am very interested in had their interest meeting last week. I'm been showing interest for the last 2 years now and I've finally gotten my act together. One of the ladies told me that I was very likely to receive a phone call soon and asked me if I was being prepared. She also stated that the ladies of that org has been through the same things so I shouldn't worry. I was glad to hear that from her but I still won't believe it's real until I get that call. Is it wrong to feel that?

Divine Love Answer:

NOt at all, sometimes until things get rollin it’s hard not to be in shock and on edge til it’s official. 

QuietStorm

Anonymous ask

Anonymous asked:

How would you like an interest to express interest?

Divine Love Answer:

1. Attend events & participate during them. 

2. Stay after and just chit chat, even if it’s just about the test you’re scared to take case they teach is rough.

3. Get to know me & my ships.

4. Be yourself! Don’t be fake or we’ll know.

5. Discretely, face to face, express your interest. 

For me & my chapter: we are very social & open! We like to get to know people and what they like to do on campus, so if you’re only gonna come talk to us about joining, for US, that’s not the way to do it. Remember that if Greek members don’t know you & what you’re doing on campus, then we can’t exactly envision you being a part of our organization.Get to know the members on campus, make your presence known, keep your reputation up, use discretion, and be yourself. 

QuietStorm

verita Anonymous ask

Anonymous asked:

I have rounded up everything for my application, however I have to ask, is 100 volunteer hours too little? I feel this is my weakness in my application. I have a 3.3 and wonderful positions in other extracurriculars. I know on the AKA website there is no numerical amount of CS hours required but I feel pressure when i hear other applicants who have more.

Divine Love Answer:

The worse thing you can do is compare yourself to others! You are YOU! Not them! Be confident in what you have to bring to the table, what you’ve accomplished, and keep your eye on your final goal. The reality is, you don’t know what will happen until it happens! Until then, be confident in what you have prepared and what you’re ready to show them! Breathe and do your thing. 

QuietStorm

Anonymous ask

Anonymous asked:

For the Miss Black & Gold Pageant, do you have to be undergrad to participate in a university chapter pageant?

Divine Love Answer:

Yes, Miss Black & Gold is an undergraduate scholarship pageant. I’m helping my sandz/ little brother plan our upcoming pageant in the Winter and it is only for undergraduate students. 

QuietStorm

Anonymous ask

Anonymous asked:

The interest meeting and rush is for Delta. What should I wear to each of them? What is the difference?

Divine Love Answer:

divineninelover:

……. So, Delta Sigma Theta Sorority Incorporated is on a break from intake. Assuming that chapter is one of a hand full who are exempt, you just singled them out. Not so discrete.

Nevertheless, business conservative with non affiliated colors. variations of the same thing if you have it.

-UniBomber

Delta Sigma Theta does not have interest meetings. If your school’s chapter is having an interest meeting they are in violation. The official rush is the only way to learn about membership intake. With how strict nationals has been lately I find it hard to believe that a chapter would even risk violating this rule… especially during a moratorium.

-strengthandelegance 

Anonymous asked:

Delta Sigma Theta is suspended on my college campus, and not active. My friend wanted to pledge but she said that she heard that she can possibly pledge at another school. Is that true? Can someone go through the whole process while they're still enrolled in another university? The university she's thinking about doing it at is about an 1 hour away from where we are.

Divine Love Answer:

divineninelover:

Its possible however unlikely. Yes they can it all depends one the grad chapter and if they want to take that risk. okay assuming she is selected has she considered how HARD that will be. Lets say pleding activites end at 2am and you have to show up there at 6 am are you going to drive back and sleep for 2hrs and still be functional.

-UniBomber

To my knowledge, if there is a chapter chartered on your campus (regardless of their status) you may not cross at another campus. 

-strengthandelegance

Anonymous asked:

I feel like shade was thrown at those who pursue grad after being denied/not voted for for undergrad. I wanted to try again, but there's a moratorium, I'm not going to delay gradating on time. I think that's ridiculous. But DST is something I want to be a part of. It sucked to be rejected and see the new members and realizing that they were all friends with everyone before and that others were just popular. Does it look bad that I didn't make undergrad if I get to that point for grad?

Divine Love Answer:

It doesn’t necessarily look bad, folks just wonder why you didn’t make it and come to their own conclusions. I think the shade comes from the perception that folks do grad to avoid being hazed in undergrad. I know folks that did that and to be honest, I’m glad they did. If you don’t want a process, I’d prefer you go grad then get into something you can’t handle and bring down a whole chapter. 

The rest of y’all who went grad for other reasons just have to deal with the shade. In the end, it’s really not that big of a deal. Our Founders started these orgs to serve not haze. I can understand a little side eye at paper greeks, I side eye all the time, but if the process is ALL you’re concerned about then your process was shit and you’re just as paper as the folks you hating on.

-strengthandelegance

Anonymous asked:

Hey y'all! I haven't been on the page for a while & I'm sorry if I'm asking something y'all already answered previously. I was wondering if & when where y'all going to open the mentor portal... You guys are great keep up the good work.

Divine Love Answer:

I’m failing at life y’all. It will be reopened but I don’t have enough mentors. So how about we shoot for having it start on November 1st? Does that work? 

Thanks for the love!

-strengthandelegance

Anonymous asked:

Which Organizations are in moratorium right now?

Divine Love Answer:

As far as I know, Delta Sigma Theta and Kappa Alpha Psi. I’ve heard rumor of Omega Psi Phi also being on moratorium but I can’t confirm that. I should ask my bruhs… but that’s not something you talk about on the phone. I’ll ask at homecoming and let y’all know for sure.

-strengthandelegance